Saturday, 16 July 2016

FINAL POST of Three Continent Tour: India, Africa, UK....Southampton/Romseu/Heathrow

Noisy hotel room with nightclub below, but had a lovely final breakfast with Gordon, Trish, bride, groom and Isle of Wight friends. I walked to train station, and took the trip to Romsey. Spent time with the family, did the final packing, and had supper. Ros and Rog took me to Winchester, where I boarded the National Express Coach to Heathrow. The taxi ride from there delivered me to the cheap hotel overnight. Tomorrow taxi to Heathrow, and flight to Canada. It is now time to end the trip.

 I am reminded that overpopulation of this planet is almost beyond the stage of no return. No human solutions will probably ever be found. There is enough to ponder about this issue: living longer, not enough resources to feed the masses of  young people in places like India, Africa etc. We are constantly distracted by world politics and issues, and forget that this issue will end the human race as we know it, and we can't find a solution, despite our scientific advances. Gordon is writing a book on these issues, and as an erudite evolutionist he has world experience of future scenarios, but a solution????


A blog is only a blog if you communicate with others. I want to thank all those who have viewed this blog from October 26 2015 to July 16 2016. In addition, I would like to thank the generosity, friendship and love of family in making my trip a trip of a lifetime: friends in India, from Uday, to Guna and family, to the yoga teachers in Mumbai, Vinod in Coonoor, Yogi Vishveketu in Rishikesh, and Sheimugan at the Ayurvedic Retreat, to the many many Indians I met who connected with me, to the G Adventures tour leaders, to family in South Africa: Johnny and Lani, Brendon and Roxie, Hilary, Barbs, to the Intrepid Camping Adventure leaders in Botswana ( Richard and co ) to Don and Carrie in Zim especially, to Rob in Ulverston, Ros and Rog in Romsey, to Gordon and Trish on the Isle of Wight, to Rob and Sara ( newly married). There are many many more people with whom I shared time, and was honoured to meet, especially Zimbabweans. The current unrest in Zim is distressing, and I hope it will hasten change there, but I doubt it. Change has been a key for me personally, and it applies to countries as well. I hope that this journey has changed me positively, and that I have grown through many amazing experiences, and some painful experiences. I will now need time to process the huge learning of the past eight and a half months, and go forward from there. My first task is to find a permanent place to live, and I will be staying with Randi and Mike Lee until I can rent or own a condo of my own. I owe a huge amount of gratitude to Randi and Mike, but also to all the people I have met. Life is rich, but people and culture give meaning to the beauty of nature. I wish the very best life has to offer to all who read these words.

Have a wonderful week. Last but not least: thanks so much to Anne Gibas, my patient, and wonderful German travel agent of Moosetravel on this journey.

NAMASTE ( may the good in me, salute the goodness in you )

Dave

SaturdayJuly 16, 2016

UK

Friday, 15 July 2016

Friday July15: the wedding day! Southampton: Second last day in UK, SECOND last day of holiday and blog!!!!!!

Early breakfast with the bride and maids. Fun. Then got dressed in duds from Gordon.( pic) Took pics of bride and maids, and "father of bride" before they went to the registry office. Then took pics of Gordon and Trish. We walked to the registry office nearby. Took pics before, and during the ceremony. The registry is very like a church but is non religious. Check out wedding pics. Then pics were taken on the old city walls of Southampton of bridal party and guests. Soon after we returned to the hotel for champagne in Gordon's suite. Afterwards we went to the Jane Autin room for the luncheon, which was very pleasant, and lots more pics were taken. Then a hiatus, when I returned to import pics, and do this blog. 7 PM is the time for the reception.
 Above: Sara before
 Above: Sara and Dom who gave her away as the "Dad"
 Above: the maids
 Above: Gordon and Trish
 Above: are work on the way to the registry
 Above: Sara at the venue before
 Above: Sara and brother
 Above: Sara and maids
 Above: registry interior like a church but not a church
 Above: Rob.............waiting..........
 Above: parents and bride after the signing
 Above: Sara, after
 Above: Yours truly, hatted , after
 Above: Sara on the old city wall
 Above: some of the party dipped into this pub en route to the luncheon to get a head start
 Above: pink champagne in Gordon's suite
 Above: bridal table
 Above: Rob's speech, and below, Sara with Dom, her"dad"

 Above: the wedding cake..white chocolate, truffles, rasberry/crea, cake
 Above: note the layered eye make up, and piercing
 Above: bridesmaid, complete with tatoos, piercing, make up and mermaid green hair
 Above: the cake from above with truffles
 Above: Sara and new father in law, Gordon
 Above: Rob and Sara cutting the cake
 Above and below: dancing and kareoke, and DJ at reception, plus a meal, and bar

Thursday July 14 Romsey to Southampton for the wedding

Rob and I went downtown for a coffee, and prepared for my departure by train to Southampton for the wedding. After a walk, I caught the train, and got to the wedding hotel in Southampton. I met up with Gordon and Trish, and we had a drink in their room. Then we went to get a dress altered for one of the bridesmaids , and while waiting I took pics of the motorbikes lined up every Thursday. Biker guys always meet every Thursday. Then we went back to the hotel for dinner. It was great to meet Rob and Sara and their friends.

 Above: Sara's friend, getting the dress alteration
 Above: bikes lined up: the guys check out each other's bikes

 Below: Rob and Sara

Above: nails are done and ready!!

Thursday, 14 July 2016

Wednesday July 13 Romsey UK

Rob and I went downtown for supplies, and met Ros and Rog for coffee and treats. We went to Romsey Abbey and I took pics of it. After that Rob and I went for a bite of lunch, and walked to Tadburn Meadows. Before we got back to Ros's place, we walked to her workplace, and met her at the end of the day. Not long after, all of us walked to the OLD HOUSE AT HOME, pub for a last supper together. We landed next to a huge table of ladies eating and drinking, but this proved to be too loud, and we moved to a quieter part of the pub. They forgot about our order, so we reminded them, and eventually ate quite late. We got free desserts, and came home for tea. It was a good day.

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 Above: Romsey abbey outside

 Above: Ceiling of abbey
 Above: fan, vaulted ceiling

 Above and below: lovely shrub

 Above: Rog and Ros
 Above: Ros in her Indian kurta with black leggings and sandals. Colours worked well for her. Dress is slit at sides, Indian lady style. Below: the three of us.

Tuesday, 12 July 2016

Tuesday July 12 Romsey, UK

Rob and I took the train to Southampton for the day. It only took 12 minutes. We  walked from the station past the old city walls, into the modern new West Quay shopping centre, and on to the Dolphin Hotel, where we met Sara, the bride to be, and visited with her for a while. Then we went to lunch at a pub called Standing order ( an old bank ) for burritos and beer! Soon after we returned to the West Quay shopping centre for some gift shopping, and returned by train to Romsey. Ros made a lovely supper.

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 Above: part of the old city wall, with modern pedestrian bridge
Above: Rob and I

Monday, 11 July 2016

Monday July 11 Romsey, Hampshire, UK

I went for a great walk in Tadburn Meadows. Rog and I went to pick up Ros for lunch, and I treated them to coffee and treats. Rog and I did grocery shopping, and walked back home. At 3:30 PM we picked up Rob from Winchester. He has come down from Ulverston to say goodbye and spend a few days with Ros and Rog after I leave. It was great to see Rob again before I leave the UK on Sunday for Canada. Rob and I went for another walk and picked up Ros from the Doctor's surgery where she works, and we all walked home, to have dinner, TV, visits and eventually bed.
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 Above and below: on the trip to Winchester to pick up Rob, you go through these green tunnels of trees.

Sunday, 10 July 2016

Sunday July 10 Romsey: one more week of the UK and home

Regular day with nothing special to report. Walks, reading etc. No pics. Thanks for checking in.

Saturday July 9 Southampton to Romsey

Gordon and I had a lovely breakfast at the Dolphin hotel. He then left on the Red Funnel ferry for the Isle, and I relaxed in the hotel room. Later, I left by bus for the station, and in 12 minutes was in Romsey. Ros and Rog met me. I dropped my things at their house, organized, and read. Ros and Rog came home with pizza for lunch, and after that we went to the Beggar's Festival....a local Romsey street festival of music, beer gardens etc. I managed to get lost in the crowds, but eventually we linked up again, and went home for supper. Great to be back and now the touring is finally over. I stay here till Thursday next week, attend the wedding in Southampton, then fly home!!!

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Saturday, 9 July 2016

Friday July 8 Isle of Wight: to Southampton, UK

 Above: at Folly Inn, and below, in front of Folly Inn

 Above: Folly Inn and below, the jetty at the front of the Inn
 Above: the stag at the Indian restaurant
Above: Robert, second on left
 Above: Gordon on left
 Above: Duke of Wellington....great flowers outside, below
 Below:Jazz at the Duke
We left 9:30 AM to do some shopping, then picked up Trish's dad, and we drove to the Folly Inn, where we had a meal. I took some pics outside as we were right on the sea. Then Trish dropped Gordon and I at the Ferry Station. An hour later we were in Southampton, and we dropped our bags at the Dolphin Hotel, then walked for 5 minutes to Rob's flat. Rob is Gordon's son. Wedding plans were discussed. It was good to see Rob again after about 10 years. He and Sara both work at the Dolphin Hotel, and are getting married next week. About 6 pm we went to the Oasis bar, where we met 5 of Rob's buddies, and we had drinks. 7 pm saw us at the Coriander, and Indian restaurant very close by. The meal was great. About 8:30 PM Gordon and I left the young guys to finish their stag party with Rob. We went to the Duke of Wellington pub to watch a jazz band. We didn't drink but enjoyed the music for a short while, then came back to the hotel, showered, read books, and called it a night. The Dolphin was a pleasant hotel.